On Incest
Full Title: On Incest: Psychoanalytic Perspectives
Author / Editor: Giovanna Ambrosio (Editor)
Publisher: Karnac, 2005
Review © Metapsychology Vol. 9, No. 43
Reviewer: Lili Hsieh, Ph.D.
On Incest is a collected
volume of six essays written by practicing analysts and psychiatrists from
Europe and South America. Emerging from the panel on the theme of incest
organized by the International Psychoanalytic Association Committee on Women
and Psychoanalysis at the European Conference in Ravello, Italy in 2003, the
six essays maintain a conversational style, making the reading an easy and
smooth flow. Partly because of its conference proceeding format, partly,
perhaps, because its contributors are practicing analysts rather than literary
or cultural critics, the collection brushes quite lightly on the theoretical
intricacies that the concept of incest has been fraught with since the
beginning of psychoanalysis. Instead, in one or two comfortable sittings,
readers can enter the virtual conference room and have wide-ranging discussions
of incest from the origin, definition, and forms of incest to clinical
situations and varied techniques. Although its organization a bit rudimentary
and its theoretical engagement limited, the collection provides, as its
subtitle indicates, multiple psychoanalytic perspectives of incest which can be
interesting to practicing analysts, social workers, feminists, and students
applying psychoanalysis to literary and cultural studies alike.
Incest is a famously elusive
concept in psychoanalysis. The "foundational myth" of psychoanalysis
is a story of incest. Yet, with his famous "abandonment" of seduction
theory (or trauma theory) in 1897–"I no longer believe in my neurotica
[theory of the neuroses]," as Freud blissfully confided to Wilhelm Fliess
[Freud’s letter to Wilhelm Fliess, September 21, 1897, in Jeffrey Masson, ed., The
Complete Letters of Sigmund Freud to Wilhelm Fliess, p. 264]–Freud
transfers the scene of incest to another plane, that of fantasy, thereby opening
a whole new terrain for dream-analysis and infantile sexuality–or,
psychoanalysis tout court. In a way, the origin of psychoanalysis lies
at the intersection where the old route of seduction theory yields to the royal
road of Oedipus Complex.
Although Freud’s so-called
abandonment of seduction theory, like his rejection of hypnosis and Charcot’s
cathartic method, is never a straightforward refutation but a Hegelian Aufhebun, a negation in retention, many
never forgive him for "taking a flight" from the reality of sexual
abuse in the romanticized notion of fantasy (or phantasy). One only needs to
recall the names of Jeffrey Masson and Alice Miller to refresh the polemics
surrounding the concept of incest in psychoanalysis. [Jeffrey Moussaieff
Masson, The Assault on Truth: Freud’s Suppression of the
Seduction Theory, New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1984; Alice
Miller, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware:
Society’s Betrayal of the Children, translated by Hildegarde and Hunter
Hannum, New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1984.] Since the 1980s, incest has become a thorny, even dividing issue
for both psychoanalysts and feminists. To deflect from the reality of
incest is to blame the victims and perpetuating the crime, an assault on truth
as Jeffrey Masson’s famous title claims. For Freudian psychoanalysts, however,
such a regression to pre-psychoanalytic theory of seduction is not only
unpsychoanalytic; it is a betrayal, an
act of treason. That the "truth" claim in both Masson and
Miller is sneered at by psychoanalysts who opt for a more sophisticated
"truth of fantasy" tells a lot about how incest remains an intriguing
moot point in psychoanalysis.
That psychoanalysis should not be
in denial of incest in reality is the departing point of the editor, Giovanna
Ambrosio, European co-chair of the Committee on Women and Psychoanalysis of the
International Psychoanalytic Association and editor of the journal Psycoanalisi.
She writes in the introduction, "I intend to present the theme of really
acted out incest, distinguishing it from incestuous fantasies" and "I
think it is hazardous not to distinguish between fantasy and reality,
especially when it regards the possibility of helping a patient"(3). The
following essays are devoted to both the reality and the
fantasmatic psychic mechanisms of incest, rather than championing one to chase
out the other, as is usually the case in classical psychoanalysis or its
"traitors." The competition between the seduction theory and Oedipus
Complex notwithstanding, the contributors of this volume see both as essential
to understanding incest in the analytic situation. The six papers take up
different questions and perspectives, but at the end of the day they return to
psychoanalysis, as the final contributor Brendan MacCarthy says, as "far
superior to other approaches including medication" (119-20).
The issues which the six essays present are interestingly
variegated. Simona Argentieri’s "Incest Yesterday and Today: From Conflict
to Ambiguity" asks how the changes of familial structures over the past
few decades should also change the psychoanalytic theory of Oedipalization and
gender identity. Setting the theoretical tone for the book, Argentieri
advocates a hybrid, middle ground of "post-Freudian" theories–drive
psychology, ego psychology, self-psychology, and object relations school–to
look for a psychoanalytic theory of incest for today. Juan Eduardo Tesone’s
"Incest(s) and the Negation of Otherness" looks especially at the
psychic mechanism of the incest perpetrators. For Tesone, the incestuous wish
of the perpetrator is "a wish to be omnipotent" (54), "one of
the severe forms of narcissistic disorders" (57) that obliterates the
otherness of the child. Monique Cournut-Janin’s "Incest: the Crushed
Fantasy" takes into consideration different forms of incest:
father-daughter incest, father-son incest, mother-son incest, and
mother-daughter incest. She offers several interesting cases, including a brief
discussion of Freud’s case of Katrina, whose incestuous relationship with her
father was disguised as an uncle to niece seduction when Freud published it in Studies
on Hysteria (1895). Estela V. Welldon’s interesting essay, "Incest: A
Therapeutic Challenge" presents two propositions. First, she points out
the dangerous countertransference that reproduces the incest dynamic when the
analyst sympathizes with or becomes protective, even possessive, of the
patient. Secondly, because power and secrecy is consistently the pattern
inherent in the dynamic of incest family, Welldon believes that group therapy,
in her words, "can become, if well administered, the best form of treatment
for victims and perpetrators of incest" (94). Mariam Alizade’s
"Incest: the Damaged Psychic Flesh" relocates incestuous fantasies in
prohibition and separates from it the "obnoxious incest"–the one
that damages the biological and psychic flesh. Finally, Brendan MacCarthy’s
"Counterpoints" concludes by asking several interesting questions:
Does the gender of the analysts matter? When does the incestuousness start, if
it predates the act itself? Taking up Argentieri’s suggestion that psychoanalytic
theory needs to accommodate social changes to account for incest yesterday and
today, MacCarthy pleads for more engagement with psychoanalysis for a theory of
incest for us to think about "Incest: Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow"
(120).
Apart from being extremely readable,
the strength of the collection lies in the various subtopics brought up by its
six contributors. For example, Cournut-Janin’s point that "mother-son
incest is the one which has attracted the strongest prohibition; the
mother-daughter pattern is still to a great extent unclear" (75) brings up
the oftentimes overlooked role of the maternal figure in incest. It would be
interesting to see how Cournut-Janin would engage with past feminist theories
that valorize the maternal figure and differentiate maternal care from
incestuousness. It is also hard to underestimate the potential of Welldon’s
proposal to turn to group analysis, even if it sounds transgressive to put the
victim and the perpetrator in the same group. But as Welldon points out, the
one-to-one analytical situation too often triggers the transference and
countertransference that are the mimetic representation of the incestuous
familial dynamics. Moreover, to bring in MacCarthy’s point that in the analytic
situation of incest cases, the analyst is constantly under watch of the patient
to see if s/he will look "shocked, disapproved, become excited or even
aroused" (119), group analysis can be a useful way to for the full circle
of affective seduction to emerge and become an object of analysis.
Although the book is not devoid of
flickers of original ideas, provocative questions, and illuminating cases, its
theoretical depth suffers as the essays seem to keep to the original conference
format. In some of the papers, case reports outweigh theoretical discussions.
There are also moments of theoretical infelicities. Beginning from Argentieri’s
theoretical manifesto for the collection, the endeavor of the essays seems to
be driven by a wish for a theoretical middle-ground. Yet a middle ground can be
a compromise. Tesone’s essay, for example, enlists different psychoanalytic
theorists such as Laplanche, Green, and Ferenczi, only to arrive at an
interpretation of incest perpetrators as suffering from narcissistic disorder,
a theory which in fact meshes well with self-psychology. One asks: but isn’t
the inclination of narcissism and unconscious aggression against otherness a
common denominator of human psyche? Similarly, the lack of theoretical
precision leads Alizade to postulate a structural inclination to incest based
on prohibition and an "obnoxious incest," without fully addressing
the implications and differentiation of incestuousness and the bodily event of
incest.
My final, albeit minor, complaint
about the book is the somewhat mystic presence of the concept of cure. As a
former social worker who was deeply frustrated by cases of incest clients, I
waited for more specific guidelines for cure. As much as I appreciated the
fresh light the book sheds to different aspects of incest, I grew uncomfortable
after numerous narrations of the sufferings from incest (Alizade’s essay, the
one before MarCarthy’s closing, ends with exasperating words of her patient,
Natalie, "My bones hurt, my left shoulder hurts, my throat hurts, I always
get colds and when I cough my forehead hurts… When my stepmother made me wash
the dishes it was too much, I felt weak, my whole arm aches now…," p.
113). Apart from Welldon’s discussions, the attention to techniques is scanty.
The book’s psychoanalytic venture into "real" incest is a pioneering
and admirable step. Indeed, as MarCarthy concludes, we need to be more engaged
with psychoanalysis for a theory of incest of tomorrow. That hope, I think, can
only be fulfilled by more vigorous theorization of the seeds of ideas presented
in this collection.
©
2005 Lili Hsieh
Lili Hsieh, Ph.D., Mellon Postdoctoral Fellow,
English Department/Humanities Forum, University of Pennsylvania
Categories: Psychoanalysis